I’ve been a server for many years! My server at dinner last night was the owners daughter & has a second job that still brings in more $ than my current serving position, in a nursing home (no tips). Should I be a little irritated that I left 15% instead of 10% after I found out this info? I’m battling w this one.

I mean…she has a second job for a reason. Just because she is the owner’s daughter doesn’t mean she is rolling in dough. And even if she does make more money than you, I don’t see how that is relevant to how much you tip her. She still should be compensated for her hard work. ~IYCATT